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International Online Lolita Meeting 2012 is looking for a banner designer
9th of June: Meeting for bigger groups around the world
10th of june: Meeting for people that wish to participate the gathering alone.
Please feel free to invite your lolita friends to the gathering.
More info coming soon.
Hello fellow Lolitas, Aristocrats, Kodonas etc. around the world! ♥
We are now finally after many months of thinking and planning arranging a big international online lolita gathering for friends around the world. The idea of the meeting is to arrange small, or big, lolita meetings around the world at the same time and connect each others in several different chat rooms on Tinychat to meet each others through web cameras where ever we are in the world! However, it would also mean that some of the meetings are held during night time, so this is something that needs to be planned carefully.
Every meeting and group needs a leader, so meeting organizers around the world please write about your group on the wall of the meeting.
For the meeting, please make sure that you are prepared with, for example, the flag of your country. More ideas are warmly welcomed. An introduction of bigger groups would also be ideal: like people walking infront of the camera one by one and introducing themselves. ♥ It would be also wonderful if the surrounding of the meeting was something that you would love to show to the other lolitas elsewhere in the world.
We hope to hear a lot of great ideas for the meeting, and to meet with many lovely people soon.
Many hugs and best wishes,
The organizers of International online lolita meeting 2012
Oh wow, that's an afwul thing to say to someone! Especially to someone as lovely as you! It's actually quitre tragic how money seems to be prioritised over inner things that matter in contemporary society. Maybe try to very calmly and reasonably talk to your boyfriend about how this (quite rightfully) makes you feel? (although I probably shound't be giving advice due to not knowing the full story, fhasdjfh). Either way, I hope you somehow sort things out and won't let this bring you down <3
Hello there,
Thank you for your very kind and supporting message. I think I will survive once I get over it - shouldn’t take more than couple of days, hopefully. I think you are right, it is indeed tragic.
We talked about things with my boyfriend, as we always do, and will continue talking later too. He understands how upset I am, especially because I have had to prove myself to my own mother for my whole life which why I got a burn out. I do not wish to be in the same kind of a situation again and get sick. Relationships can be very tricky sometimes.
I will definitely try to take this well and concentrate on the bright side of things. Thank you for your kindness, sweetie. <3 I really appreciate your words.
Have a wonderful day!
Many hugs,
Iira
I’m giving up.
My boyfriend’s Mother to me:
“Finnish woman,
Please do not bother my family, again!!! you are not welcome.”
So, yeah, I’m giving up on this case. I offered my help and this is what I get. These people have lost my respect completely so there is no reason for me to offer my help and brain anymore (I offered them 24/7 IT support, web and logo designing and also run for errands for them when ever they wished during my stay on New York). Very simple that is. Atleast I can respect them being honest and making me realize very fast that I’m not welcomed there. I do not wish to work with such people. Period - end of the story.
I am upset and insulted.
I do not feel very welcome to New York although I have a lot of friends waiting for me there…
My boyfriend’s family does not want to meet me although I am having a long flight from Europe to the US for the first time of my life and will most likely not have a chance to travel there again in many years. Afterall, me and my bf have been living together for over a year now and dating longer than that. I was told to be a stressfactor and burden money-wise for his family.. This family doesn’t care about anything else than money and their careers. I even offered my help to solve things at their family company for free, but no…
I feel like my heart has been jumped on several times.
I’m not sure if I can live with these people in the future. Sometimes people don’t realize that they shouldn’t sacrifice their peace of mind for money. The family works 24/7 because all they care about is money, they are stressed out and depressed (even suicidal).. And the sad thing is that my boyfriend is the same. I usually feel like his work comes first, then me.
(I have never asked money from him although I work hard at his practice. I do not use people for money, never!)
I can’t take this anymore. I’m moving on my own to France.
I’m sorry if it bothers someone that I write about this online, but I couldn’t keep it on my heart anymore.
